900 Dollars vs. The Internet: A Single Dad’s Battle in a Culture Obsessed with Viral Trends

by BuddyD

Why is it that some internet trend or viral meme can rake in hundreds of thousands of dollars overnight, while a hardworking single father trying to raise his two kids and keep the lights on gets left in the digital dust?

I’m looking at a GoFundMe campaign right now titled “Getting Back on Our Feet,” started by a father named Scott Sobel from Brunswick, Maryland. He’s not asking for an inheritance or a luxury vacation. He’s asking for a modest $900 just to catch up on rent and electricity after unexpected car repairs hit him over the summer. As of right now, he hasn’t even hit a quarter of that goal.

Let me make something completely clear before anyone tries to inject politics into this: I have no earthly idea what this man’s political beliefs are. He could be conservative, liberal, independent, or completely checked out from politics altogether. Furthermore, he has absolutely no clue that I am writing this post, nor does he know where it’s being shared. This isn’t about scoring political points, and it’s certainly not his fault that his story caught my eye.

This is simply about a father swallowing his pride for the sake of his children.

It forces us to ask a tough question about the state of our culture and our algorithms. Why does real, quiet, everyday hardship get ignored by the masses while superficial stories go viral in the blink of an eye? A stable home for two growing kids shouldn’t be an extravagant request. $900 shouldn’t be a mountain too high to climb in a country with so much abundance.

If we want to prove that community and basic human decency still matter more than viral sensations, we need to start noticing the people who are quietly doing everything they can just to survive. Let’s get this dad noticed.

GETTING BACK ON OUR FEET

Pay It Forward: Convenience store owner adopts family over the holidays

KANSAS CITY, Mo. — A man’s kindness during Christmas had a lasting impact on one family.

The convenience store at 24th and Brooklyn sells canned foods, soda and candy, but the compassion is free.

“We had nothing under the tree, we didn’t decorate our tree or nothing until that day he blessed us,” said Danielle Wrinkle about the store owner, Howard Bettis.

He opened the store because the neighborhood didn’t have one. Rhonda Robinson works there.

“I told Howard she doesn’t have anything for Christmas, and the kids don’t have anything. And just out of the blue he said ‘we are going to adopt them, we are going to adopt them,’” said Robinson.

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New hope for motel kids

moving kids from motel 1Just blocks from “The Happiest Place on Earth,” in one of the richest counties in America, Demond, Ashley, and their four kids have been living in a cramped, run-down motel room for a year and a half. Between the six of them, they share one bed and one small couch. Surprisingly, they aren’t welfare cases; Demond and Ashley both work full-time at Walmart. But like thousands of other families in Orange County alone, they struggle to save enough to pay the first-month/last-month/security deposit that landlords require. And so they’re stuck.

“It eats up all your money so you can’t afford to move,” says Ashley, “Even if you could afford an apartment of your own, with kids, and the rent, you can’t save any money to do anything except stay here.” To compound the problem, Ashley’s mom had an eviction when Ashley was living with her – a fact that shows up on Ashley’s credit history. So Demond and Ashley pay $1300 a month for the dubious privilege of living in a single motel room where the kids aren’t even allowed by the management to play in the parking lot. For Christmas, they’d like nothing more than to get out of the motel and into a stable home.  (Continue Reading)

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Impromptu lunch with a police officer turns into a fast friendship for 3 brothers

INDEPENDENCE, Mo. — It started with a lunch trip to Chick-Fil-A and ended with an unlikely friendship. You might’ve seen a picture floating around Facebook or Twitter of an Independence police officer spending his lunch break with three boys.

Not only has the picture gone viral, much more has developed beyond the lens. Officer Lewis Logan has an important task. He has three tiny people he needs to question.

“Hi. Hi. How are you?” Officer Logan asked.

“Hi Officer Logan,” four-year-old Finley Leiboult said.

Before this week, officer Logan had never met the Leiboult boys.

But now…

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Impromptu lunch with a police officer turns into a fast friendship for 3 brothers

I can’t believe you made it!

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I can’t believe you made it!

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Amazing how everyone survived the good ole days when kids were kids, being accountable for one’s own actions was expected, and being able to admit to being wrong — was considered honorable and a sign of strength!
Amazing indeed!
Oh, for the good ole days — may they return and may that return be soon!